Gosh, has it really been that long since I’ve updated?! So much has happened!
So the Dude is going to be five months on Sunday (I think he’s 22 weeks this week, kind of losing count). He rolled from front to back for the first time at 19 weeks and has since done it a handful of times. He mostly doesn’t do it though, when I put him down for tummy time. He does stay down longer than he used to, without losing it, but daddy still hasn’t seen him roll! And then yesterday for the first time I witnessed him roll from his back to his front!! I couldn’t believe it, it was awesome, he just did it with a little effort.
I took him to visit a friend yesterday, who has a little girl two months older than him, and she is really wriggling about, twisting and turning over and over, pretty much crawling. When I put him next to this little girl, however, I suddenly realised just how massive he is! He is slightly bigger than this little girl, even though she’s so much older. And she’s not a small baby, I’d say probably around average. But he just sort of lay there and watched her wriggling about in awe, like, wow, why can’t I do that? ha ha!
So speaking of his size, I did take him for his first check up. We went to the doctor as I’d had a blocked ear for ages and although I’d killed any infection in there with onion juice, my ear just wasn’t clearing. I finally relented and went to the doctor (the same one I’d gone to when I was first pregnant). She’s a nice woman but god she’s so ignorant! The things she said to me during the appointment, I had to really make an effort not to laugh. She actually started telling me how to ‘discipline’ my four month old baby and she even referred to babies as being ‘like puppies’!! Can you imagine! She didn’t help my ear problem either. She just looked in it, confirmed it was blocked beyond syringing (der, that’s why I went to see the doctor!) and then told me to go and get Ear Clear from the pharmacy! Seriously, I could have just gone and asked the pharmacist, what a waste of time and money that was. She weighed the Dude (which is main thing I was interested in) and he was 8.14kg! So he’d doubled his birth weight! He is in the 97th percentile for weight, height and head circumference, so yes, he’s a biggie. She asked me if I was practising ‘attachment parenting’ and I was like, erm, I don’t actually like to apply any labels to things, I just do what I do, but I guess it’s along the lines of attachment parenting. She thought we were co-sleeping because it was AP, but it’s got nothing to do with wanting to practise AP, it’s just about what feels right and what’s simplest and easiest. She also asked if I was vaccinating and I said no and got her to sign the conscientious objection form, which she had no issue with (yay!). She looked at his skin and advised me to get a cream with cortisone in it! I didn’t say anything but there’s no way I’d put it on him – I wouldn’t put it on my own skin, let alone a baby’s! Anyway, so the only good things to come out of the appointment were finding out how much he weighs and getting the form signed. Ho hum.
You’ll be happy to know my ear has unblocked itself (although the infection soon arrived in the other ear, which I killed with onion juice again and the blockage is just about gone there too). No thanks to Mrs Useless GP! She means well, she’s not a bad person, but gawd, ignorant as hell! I could provide a better service and I have no medical qualifications!
I don’t want to wish time away, as there’ll never be another time where the Dude will be little like this, but I really can’t wait for him to be more mobile and to sit up by himself. He gets so frustrated that he can’t, I can tell. Anyway, it’ll come soon, he’s almost there.
His skin has been pretty bad, comes and goes, so although I didn’t think he had intolerances I think the dairy does contribute to his skin so I’m going back off it again. My eating, that’s a whole other story and not for this post… anyway, he has what seems to be eczema, and also recently started getting red blotches with white dots in the middle randomly on him, and they’d disappear as fast as they appeared so I think he’s allergic to something, possibly the wool fleece my mum bought him. I am just keeping an eye on it really, I think it’ll come and go as his constitution works itself out.
We had a couple of very successful osteo appointments where there was total relaxation achieved twice, it was great, and he’s been much more relaxed since. And we took him to a wedding about five hours drive north, and that was fine, we managed, although I was quite illegal a few times and just took him out of his seat to feed him while we drove. Meh. I used to sit on my mum’s lap for every long trip we ever did and nothing ever happened, so I’m not worried.
Must stop, as he’s just woken, I can hear him chatting to himself in the bedroom.